Balance. Creativity. Growth.
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Movies we watched: Materialist (2025)
Romance is dead but perfectionism is thriving. Mixed reviews: Half the audience wanted a resurgence in early 2000s rom-coms and the other half might have known that A24 was going to bring a darker look at the genre. Let’s dive into the film that was great until it wasn’t.
Growth. Balance. Creativity.
“Create the life you want.” and “What you are not changing you are choosing.”
The quotes provoke our agency and desire for freedom to create a life we want to live. How? How does one grow and create at the same time? This requires us to develop a skillset for balancing a life growth and creativity. Then we can sustainably create the reality we want, not just survive the one we are in.
Movies we watched: Challengers vs. Babygirl
At first glance, these films are provocative. What were they trying to say and why were some of us so quick to dismiss them as empty or “just a movie about Zendaya kissing two guys”. Let’s dive into the films’ messaging and ask ourselves, “what did I just watch?”
What is intuitive Healing?
What if I told you that you are not depressed? And that you don’t need to be fixed? And that there is nothing wrong with you? Truth will set you free.
Alignment vs Achievement
“Be yourself”
Whatta simple concept- so of course we have to complicate it. It is OK. This is so human.
What makes it so difficult to wake up and be in our bodies? The list of offenders against us is long, so in short: it roots from our collective ideals, standards, and expectations. Good news and bad news, since the opinion about what is: right, wrong, silly, too much or too little, is ever changing- you have the power to decide for yourself what is right for you. You get to choose.
What is love? (part 2) Does short-lived count?
We loved, deeply. We held each other in intimate moments. We invited one another into our friend groups, our homes, and our family spaces. Both of us made great efforts to include each other, to listen and to be accommodating. We once were co-creating this incredible love story that would continue to grow more fulfilling to both of us.
And then suddenly, everything turns and what was once one of the most nourishing relationships becomes poison to us. Everything we were building comes to a halt to then dissolve and wash away- like we were never there.
What is Love? Fate or a matter of choice?
You ever consider how many times you said “I love you"?
Maybe you are one of those people who never say it. Maybe you have only said it a few number memorable of times. Not me. I say it often. I have loved many people. This is not exclusive to my romantic relationships, this goes beyond the agreement of commitment. I say it to my friends. I said it to people that I thought would stay around longer.
I have exchanged “I love you”(s) with many people and then life just kept going. I may never speak to these people again, but at one point that was not our reality…
The wave of ambience music
This is a great time for lyricist like Kendrick, Doechii, and Glorilla. At the same time, I need some tunes without lyrics rn. I am feeling this ‘soundtrack to the movie that is my life’ kind of vibe. Hear me out.
What is confrontation? Am I avoiding it?
I am ready to share this.
Ha. Confronting the topic of confrontation. First glance, I think that people have decided that avoiding confrontation is the “right” thing to do. It means you are the bigger person and you don’t allow drama into your life. However, I think it is in fact deeper than that, so let’s discuss.
Balance- I want it.
When you find it hard to enjoy yourself because you feel like you cannot catch up to your desires or find a sense of peace: How can you support yourself into feeling aligned with your authenticity again?
What is account-ability? And how do I take it? (final edit)
Has anyone ever accused you of not taking accountability? Do you have trouble knowing how much blame belongs to you? Let’s embrace this uncertainty. Let’s talk about it.
Identity vs values
What is identity? and how can discovering your values help prevent an identity crisis?
Let’s Talk Intimacy (part two)
Circling back to a question I asked earlier in the year about intimacy. I think I found some solid answers that calm my rational mind, but also soothe my heart.
LEt’s talk intimacy (part one)
Thinking out loud about intimacy: what is it? Am I afraid of it? How bad do I want it? These are great questions, let’s discuss.
100 shades of inspired…
Inspired by the working tension in Fifty Shades of Grey, I created my own characters and scenario- a fan fiction? Testing my tension building skills. Lemme know if you want more!
my experience on tik tok…
If we met via Tik Tok, then this one is for you. If we didn’t, then stay curious and read this one anyway. :)
Keeping a food journal…
This is a technique I used to listen, learn and understand my body’s needs. Maybe it will help you, maybe you’ll just read about it -bring it up in conversation with your friends.